Question about how to judge someone

Ok, I just realized something. Yes, you heard from a close friend of yours that I am attention hungry and you ask me whether its true or not. I will say yes, I am regardless on if its true or not based on what happened. If its in the letter, truth is when I wrote it I never meant it to be pure attention-seeking. However, I didn't seem to look at it that way till I was told that It was attention seeking. However, whether or not I am attention seeking it is up to the person asking. Your friend, yes they see me as attention seeking, however there are others who say it is not. I simply said yes because in that moment, whether I said yes or not it probably wouldn't have worked out in my favor. It is up to you to see me as attention seeking or not, you must observe it first-hand experience it before making that decision. To your friend, I am truly sorry again for what was in the previous letter. It wasn't something I should have given out and yet it was passed out and I really regret ever writing it.